My Secret In Keeping a Long Lasting Relationship with a Loved One


It is easy to fall in love, but staying in love, that's the journey. We often think that being in a relationship with someone just flows easily, but what we don't realize is the fact that we are still two individuals who have different needs and may have slightly different views in life. 

Learning your own love language is just as important as your basic daily needs. Because these are the things that should be met, for you to stay happy and contented with your life and of course your relationship. It all begins with your choice, a choice to give yourself a chance to fulfill your needs spiritually because when you are happy with yourself, you are able to spread happiness around you too. 

It may have been a little difficult for me to get to know myself, it is a process that I go through everyday. A trial and error kind of process. But it's okay, because now (after a few crazy-heart breaking mistakes 😝) I finally know what I need and knowing what I need made me realize that I have to know my partner's needs to in order for us to have a successful and long lasting relationship. 

The Love Language of a person is important, these are areas in our lives that we need to discover so that we can begin loving ourselves and loving other people in a way that we could both work on. It is understanding yourself and your partner in a whole different level. πŸ’•  This also translates to having better communication which also improves our relationship for the better.  My primary love languages are Acts of Service and Quality Time. 

My Secret in keeping a long lasting relationship with my loved one is through finding a way to serve and help everyday. I am a Pre School Teacher and I feel like extending a helping hand to everyone is my way to communicate my love and affection for them. With my loved one, I often help out with chores like doing the laundry, washing dishes and fixing the closet (here comes the OC me! LOL!) I like cooking for him, preparing our food and even buying snacks for us! πŸ’›   I guess I got really lucky because we have the same primary love languages so we really like doing things for each other and helping each other grow. We make doing chores fun and full of laughter, where Quality Time comes in. We like to spend a lot of time together, it's amazing how we can give each other our undivided attention. We can talk about anything and everything under the sun, goof around and mess each other's hair and just have fun. πŸ’

Laundry time is one of the things that we enjoy doing together. LOL I know, right? #Adulting πŸ‘Œ We have been using Del Forever Love Fabric Conditioner because I like the smell and we all know how extremely (to the point of being OA) freakishly OC I get when it comes to fragrance and scent of my clothes. πŸ˜’  We discovered Del Forever Love Fabric Conditioner when I was scrolling through Team Kramer's Facebook Page because I'm such a huge fan/stalker. Hahahaha. :D And I saw that Cheska Kramer, uses this fabric conditioner to keep their clothes mabango all day. Of course, being a fan of the Kramers for the longest time, I really wanted to try it too. πŸ‘ It's really cute to know that the Kramers use Del Forever Love Fabric Conditioner, it honestly gives me hope that forever in the midst of all the craziness in the world, still exists. ❤πŸ‘€ Haha! I also found out that Del Forever Love Fabric Conditioner has 15x Longer Lasting Bango vs regular detergent brand based on consumer test in Metro Manila. That's why I love smelling my loved one and I love wearing his shirt when I'm sleeping  (when he's not around!) because of the super bango smell. ❤❤❤

So that is my secret in keeping a long lasting relationship with a loved one, three years and counting!! Forever to go!! Forever love!! πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’• I hope you picked up a thing or two from my story, and I would love to hear yours too. Share them with me through Facebook, Instagram  or Twitter. πŸ’˜

PS. Using a different kind of Del Fabric Conditioner in this post because the Del Forever Love Fabric Conditioner that we have at home doesn't look photo worthy anymore since we use it everyday, the sides are already torn up. :D

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